"People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges."
-- Joseph F. Newton
We experience soul when we really connect with life -- when we stop and consciously experience what is happening.
We lose soul with: - resistance - to anyone or anything- superficiality - we avoid depth of experience- control - we try to control the relationship- selfishness - we remain self-centered.
Each of these attitudes fosters separation rather than connection. Once again, soul lives in relating. Take time to become aware of, and perhaps journal on how you relate to other people and things in your life.
"We have to decide for ourselves what’s nourishing to our souls,
and do those things over others."
-- Thomas Moore